I see a lot of men trying to have a serious relationship
with women but they constantly try to have a serious relationship with the
wrong woman and then they question whether or not they should even try. When
you’re a mature man who wants a
mature woman, it helps to know what a mature woman would be like.
The right woman will not start off nude.
This one should be pretty obvious. If you meet her through
friends and you're texting pictures to each other, the right woman for you most
likely won't send you a picture of her in her undies. You most likely won't get
a boob shot or a something you can sneak a peek at when you need a jump start.
You won't meet through a phone app and when you ask for a picture it's a nude
one right from the start. She will want more than sex so she will not start the
relationship with sex because she's smart enough to know that sex is not
everything.
Sex won't happen.
Sex seems to be the biggest relationship issue today. You
know someone for a few days and then you're having sex. Well if you want the
woman you're trying to have something long term with, you can say goodbye to
sex till you get married to her. Does that mean you can get sex from somewhere
else? No! You cheat on her one time and she's gone.
She won't smother you.
She's a woman, not a girl.
She won't be on a cheap hookup website
When you have a website where you upload a picture, small
bio, and your location, then you're shown people near you, YOU 'RE ON A CHEAP
HOOKUP SITE! You don't go to those kind of locations trying to find the love of
your life. If you find her, good for you but I doubt it will really happen.
You won't have everything in common.
Classic opposites attract saying should be inserted here. It
isn't always true. It's nice to have some things in common but there's nothing
wrong with having your own thing that only you like and she will understand
that. She will not pry while you're doing something you like. She'll do
something she likes while you're doing that.
You won't have to compare her.
You'll be so happy with her that you won't feel the need to
compare her to your ex. She is a person all her own and she never seems to do
anything that your ex did. You'll also not feel the need to weigh the pros and
cons of staying with her or being with another girl.
She's not drop dead gorgeous.
I'm not saying that a supermodel cannot be THE girl but the
problem with a lot of men is that they want all these things but they expect
her to be supermodel hot as well. It's possible but if she's going to be so
gorgeous then you need to be hot and sexy too. Don't like that idea do you? So
you find the girl who's a little pudgy but you have that connection with her.
Go for her. Looks don't matter when you have the one.
Deep conversations.
You can't have a deep conversation with an airhead. You'll
have a Jillian from Family Guy situation. That right girl will always be
suitable to talk to. Even if she doesn't understand something, she will listen
and help as best she can. She won't begin daydreaming in the middle of your
conversation because she can't understand it. You will actually want to talk to
this girl about your problems or you day. She will want to listen and she will
want to help you.
She won't give ultimatums.
This woman cares about whether or not you're happy in this
relationship. She cares about the relationship and cares about where it stands.
She will not dangle the sake of your relationship over your head to get what
she wants. She will not say “Marry
me, or I leave,” and she
will not try to force you to do anything in such a manner. Anyone who would say
something like that is not serious about your relationship. A person like that
only cares about themselves and what they want.
Everyone has different tastes. The right woman might not meet
all these criteria but that might tickle your fancy. Either way, I hope this
helps you understand what you should look for if you are trying to find
something serious.
By Lydiana Inari •
( ZONEHOUSE IN'T MEDIA)
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